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	<title>Comments on: Incredible Sadness</title>
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	<description>but why let that stop me?</description>
	<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:47:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: chewingfoil</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Nov 2006 15:27:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Terry, I'm so sorry for your loss.  You seem to be aware that grief is really the "grief for self" as we negotiate our lives without this person any longer.  It does get better, with time...I'm still dealing with my mother's death, and it comes and goes in waves, but the edge isn't as sharp as it once was.

Take care of yourself, it's what Betty would have wanted.
Big hug to you,
Lisa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Terry, I&#8217;m so sorry for your loss.  You seem to be aware that grief is really the &#8220;grief for self&#8221; as we negotiate our lives without this person any longer.  It does get better, with time&#8230;I&#8217;m still dealing with my mother&#8217;s death, and it comes and goes in waves, but the edge isn&#8217;t as sharp as it once was.</p>
<p>Take care of yourself, it&#8217;s what Betty would have wanted.<br />
Big hug to you,<br />
Lisa</p>
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